Addiction to love: Overcoming obsession and dependency by Susan Peabody

By Susan Peabody

A seminal paintings on dangerous and obsessive behaviors in love, and the way to alter habit to have a good dating. This 3rd variation contains a new creation and revisions to the textual content throughout.
Some indicators of affection habit contain love initially sight, over the top fantasizing, irregular jealousy, nagging, and accepting dishonesty.
Even relationships with mom and dad, kids, siblings, or neighbors could be addictive dependency isn't continuously on the topic of romantic love.

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Love songs also tell us that love is an endless aching need and that it is all right to go crazy when we fall in love. As long as I can remember I have been hearing that love is magic, that the first time you meet someone the sun should rise in their eyes, and that it is all right to dream your life away. Love songs also reinforce the idea that it is all right to suffer for love. I have heard songs that say in essence do what you want to me but don’t let me be lonely. There is also a multitude of songs about heartache and standing by your partner even if your partner is a liar and a cheat.

Even after love addicts have separated from a partner, they often keep the addiction alive by dreaming of being reunited. Fantasizing, it seems, carries the addiction forth. It keeps the infatuation, preoccupation, and obsession alive. Since fantasizing about relationships is second nature to most people, it is important to know when it is normal and when it becomes symptomatic of an addiction. Here are some guidelines. How much time do you spend fantasizing? Too much time? Is it hard to stop fantasizing once you have started?

Other ALAs only get involved with people who are emotionally unavailable so they do not have to experience closeness. Still others prefer romantic affairs to committed relationships. They are afraid of moving to a deeper level. Then, there are the Romance Addicts who initiate relationships with more than one person at the same time in order to avoid moving to a deeper level with any one person. Often Romance Addicts are confused with sex addicts because they sexualize relationships to such a degree that emotional intimacy is nonexistent.

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